Ilfat 47 · Russia

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About me

Age
47
Marital Status
Divorced
Dating Goals
- Dating for civil marriage
- Dating for marriage (Nikah)
I'm looking for
Looking for woman 25 - 50

My details

Height
5'10" / 178 cm
Weight
176 lb (80 kg)

Facts about me

Children
Have kids that don't live with me
Nationality / Religion
Islam
Attitude to Religion
Tradition Observant
Observance of Kashrut
Partial compliance with halal requirements
Family Madhhab
Language Proficiency
Tatar
Russian

Possibility of Relocation
I don't rule out moving to another city
Education
Bachelor
Occupation
Working
Occupation Field
Legal Profession, Public Safety
Income Level
I have an average income
Housing
I live in my own apartment/house
Mobility
I have my own car or motorcycle
Attitude to Smoking
I do not smoke at all

Psychological profile

The most important qualities in a future spouse for me are:
- Reliability and loyalty to Islamic values;
- Kindness and caring;
- A sense of humor;
- Ability to listen and understand another person;
- Purity of intentions and actions.
The most important thing in family life is:
- Harmony and mutual understanding;
- Trust and sincerity;
- Regular emotional and spiritual closeness.
I absolutely cannot tolerate the following in people:
- Selfishness;
- Boastfulness;
- Disrespect toward parents;
- Unwillingness to learn and develop;
- Lack of knowledge regarding matters of faith.
I would choose the following countries to live in:
- Tajikistan.
I would not choose the following countries to live in:
- Qatar;
- Iraq;
- Lebanon;
- Russia;
- United Kingdom;
- India.
My leisure time preferences are:
- Reading Islamic and educational literature;
- Caring for pets permitted in Islam;
- Listening to nasheeds and spiritual audio recordings;
- Learning culinary skills for halal cooking;
- Cooking meals for family and loved ones;
- Engaging in sports or physical activity.
Among all sports, I prefer:
- Running;
- Walking and light trekking;
- Cycling;
- Dancing in a family circle;
- Cricket.
My favorite music styles are:
- Spiritual chants;
- Motivational audio lectures;
- Religious poetry with musical accompaniment.
The best evening at home for me is:
- Going to a family café with a halal menu;
- Visiting a cultural or educational event together;
- Taking a walk in the fresh air;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
The ideal meeting (date) for me is:
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- A small celebration with close friends;
- A bike ride in nature;
- Cooking a special dinner together;
- Discussing plans for marriage and the future.
In case of a conflict with a loved one, I:
- I openly express my feelings, trying not to offend;
- I identify the cause of the conflict through constructive dialogue;
- I try to understand my spouse’s point of view.
A preferred gift from someone close to me is:
- Tickets to an educational event;
- A surprise in the form of a homemade breakfast;
- Simply attention and presence (without a material gift).
How I feel about maintaining contact with my spouse’s parents:
- I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our relationship;
- Very important, because honoring parents is a Muslim’s duty;
- Absolutely important; we are one big family;
- I happily keep in regular contact and offer help.
In my opinion, the main problem in a family is:
- Forgetting shared family goals and values;
- Unwillingness to communicate with the spouse’s family;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs.
Ideal marital relations for me are:
- When spouses are reliable helpers and friends to each other;
- Emotional and spiritual closeness;
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas.
Personal space in family life means:
- Opportunity to do your favorite activities without harming family life.
Honesty in relationships is:
- Always tell the truth, but do so gently;
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- Be yourself and respect the other person’s individuality.

Participate in Polls

How important is it for you to maintain health and an active lifestyle in accordance with the Sunnah?
Important, but it's not always possible to strictly follow the regimen
How often do you prefer to spend time with friends and loved ones while observing Islamic guidelines for interaction?
From time to time: I respect personal space, but appreciate friendly get-togethers
What is your attitude toward keeping pets at home, taking into account Sharia rulings?
I love animals, taking into account that certain pets like cats are permissible at home
How important is a neat, modest appearance that adheres to Islamic norms for your future spouse?
Moderately important: cleanliness and neatness are key, without excessive demands
How important is harmony in the intimate aspect of marriage, considering Islamic norms of modesty and permissibility?
Moderately important: there are other aspects too, but closeness has its role
How important are financial stability and a husband's ability to provide for the family to you?
Moderately important: drive and responsibility matter more than the current income level
What is your view on the possibility of polygamy (a man having more than one wife) if all the conditions of Sharia are met?
I approach this with caution: I believe it's not easy and requires a special level of maturity
Do you think it is necessary to tell a potential spouse about your past relationships?
No, it's better not to go into details and focus on the present
How does being in love (initial attachment to a person) affect your daily activities and work?
Positively: it provides motivation and strengthens faith in the future
How important is a sense of humor in your future spouse for you?
An important quality, but not the only one in marriage
Are you willing to give a potential spouse a second chance after an unsuccessful first meeting?
Yes, I'm willing to get to know the person better on a second meeting
What is your view on a marriage where the man is younger than the woman?
I accept it if both partners are mature and respect each other
What do you think is the optimal age difference between spouses in terms of family harmony?
A small difference (1–5 years): convenient for a common life rhythm

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