Anisa 35 · Russia

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About me

Age
35
Marital Status
Widowed
Dating Goals
- Dating for marriage (Mubakh)
- Dating for marriage (Nikah)
- Dating for creating a Muslim family and having children (Nikah)
I'm looking for
Looking for man 28 - 50
About me
My name is Anisa, I have been in Islam for 2 years. I am Russian, was married to an Azerbaijani, and became a widow 6 years ago. I am a balanced woman, capable of dialogue and compromise. I build all my relationships on sincere respect and seek the pleasure of Almighty Allah.
Interests
I love reading informative literature (mostly about Islam), visiting new places, and enjoying nature—walking in the forest, gathering mushrooms and berries. I wouldn't mind living in the countryside.
Looking for in a Partner:
A kindred spirit, a person for whom I will be a support and comfort, and who will be my moral support. I do not need material things, praise be to Allah, I work and provide for my needs. I desire sincerity and mutual respect. I am not a conflictual person; I always prefer dialogue over argument.

My details

Height
5'1" / 155 cm
Weight
117 lb (53 kg)

Facts about me

Children
No kids
Nationality / Religion
Islam
Attitude to Religion
Believer
Family Madhhab
Style of Observance
I wear a headscarf only in certain situations
Language Proficiency
Russian

Possibility of Relocation
I don't rule out moving to another city
Education
Uneducated Higher
Occupation
Working
Occupation Field
Marketing, Sales and Customer Service
Income Level
I have an average income
Housing
I rent an apartment alone
Mobility
I travel by public transport
Attitude to Smoking
I do not smoke at all

Psychological profile

The most important qualities in a future spouse for me are:
- Reliability and loyalty to Islamic values;
- Sincerity and openness;
- Respect for family and parents;
- Aspiration for spiritual growth;
- Education and a willingness to learn.
The most important thing in family life is:
- Mutual respect and love for the sake of the Almighty;
- Harmony and mutual understanding;
- Regular emotional and spiritual closeness.
I absolutely cannot tolerate the following in people:
- Greed;
- Inconsistency in words and actions;
- Disrespect toward parents;
- Unwillingness to learn and develop;
- Insincerity and deceit.
I would choose the following countries to live in:
- Azerbaijan;
- Russia.
I would not choose the following countries to live in:
- India.
My leisure time preferences are:
- Reading Islamic and educational literature;
- Taking part in charitable or volunteer projects;
- Visiting cultural events and exhibitions (within reason);
- Family gatherings and celebrations;
- Educational courses and seminars.
Among all sports, I prefer:
- Walking and light trekking.
My favorite music styles are:
- Nasheeds;
- Melodies and poetry about love for the Almighty;
- Traditional folk music (without prohibited elements);
- Turkish folk music;
- Sufi dhikr (remembrance).
The best evening at home for me is:
- Cooking a tasty homemade dinner for the family;
- Visiting a cultural or educational event together;
- Reading spiritual literature;
- Taking a walk in the fresh air;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
The ideal meeting (date) for me is:
- A warm evening with the family;
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- A bike ride in nature;
- Cooking a special dinner together;
- Discussing plans for marriage and the future.
In case of a conflict with a loved one, I:
- I isolate myself to turn to the Almighty in supplication;
- I remain silent for a while so as not to say something I’ll regret;
- I prefer to give in to keep the peace.
A preferred gift from someone close to me is:
- A trip to blessed places;
- A day spent together in a family park;
- Simply attention and presence (without a material gift).
How I feel about maintaining contact with my spouse’s parents:
- Very important, because honoring parents is a Muslim’s duty;
- Absolutely important; we are one big family.
In my opinion, the main problem in a family is:
- When one spouse constantly expects the other to solve all problems;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs.
Ideal marital relations for me are:
- Emotional and spiritual closeness;
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas;
- Submitting to the will of the Almighty and avoiding the forbidden.
Personal space in family life means:
- Time for private prayer and self-reflection;
- Separate interactions with friends and relatives.
Honesty in relationships is:
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- First figure out your own emotions, then express them;
- Be yourself and respect the other person’s individuality.

Participate in Polls

How important is it for you to maintain health and an active lifestyle in accordance with the Sunnah?
Important, but it's not always possible to strictly follow the regimen
How often do you prefer to spend time with friends and loved ones while observing Islamic guidelines for interaction?
From time to time: I respect personal space, but appreciate friendly get-togethers
How important is a neat, modest appearance that adheres to Islamic norms for your future spouse?
Moderately important: cleanliness and neatness are key, without excessive demands
What is your view on the possibility of polygamy (a man having more than one wife) if all the conditions of Sharia are met?
I allow it under certain conditions: wives’ consent, financial and emotional responsibility
How long do you usually communicate (online or by phone) with a potential spouse before meeting in person?
Not long: a personal meeting with a mahram or a third party is more important for understanding
How does being in love (initial attachment to a person) affect your daily activities and work?
Positively: it provides motivation and strengthens faith in the future
What do you think is the optimal age difference between spouses in terms of family harmony?
The age difference isn't that important; mutual understanding and respect are what matter
What is your view on a marriage where the man is younger than the woman?
I accept it if both partners are mature and respect each other
What is your attitude toward a marriage contract (nikah-contract) that specifies rights and obligations?
I'm inclined to support it, but much depends on the specific conditions and agreements
How important are financial stability and a husband's ability to provide for the family to you?
Moderately important: drive and responsibility matter more than the current income level
Is your goal to get acquainted in order to enter into a nikah (Islamic marriage), or are you open to other possibilities?
I consider serious relationships with the prospect of marriage, but I'm open to getting to know someone gradually

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