Alya 42 · Russia

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About me

Age
42
Marital Status
Not Married
Dating Goals
- Dating for marriage (Nikah)
- Dating for creating a Muslim family and having children (Nikah)
I'm looking for
Looking for man 39 - 48
About me
Peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah and His blessings. Praise be to Allah, I recently embraced Islam.
Interests
Books. Mountains. Rafting. Cooking.
Looking for in a Partner:
Decency. Cleanliness. Education. The desire and ability to grow.

My details

Height
5'1" / 156 cm
Weight
134 lb (61 kg)

Facts about me

Children
No children, but want kids
Nationality / Religion
Islam
Attitude to Religion
Tradition Observant
Observance of Kashrut
Full Observance of halal requirements
Language Proficiency
Russian
English

Possibility of Relocation
I don't rule out moving to another city
Education
Bachelor
Occupation
Working
Occupation Field
Other
Income Level
My income is above average
Housing
I rent an apartment alone
Mobility
I travel by public transport
Attitude to Smoking
I do not smoke at all

Psychological profile

The most important qualities in a future spouse for me are:
- Aspiration for spiritual growth;
- Education and a willingness to learn;
- Ability to make decisions;
- Romantic nature within permissible limits;
- Purity of intentions and actions.
The most important thing in family life is:
- Mutual respect and love for the sake of the Almighty;
- Support in both spiritual and worldly development;
- Regular emotional and spiritual closeness.
I absolutely cannot tolerate the following in people:
- Greed;
- Irresponsibility;
- Inconsistency in words and actions;
- Hypocrisy;
- Unwillingness to learn and develop.
I would choose the following countries to live in:
- Russia.
I would not choose the following countries to live in:
- France;
- United Kingdom;
- Germany;
- USA;
- Canada;
- India.
My leisure time preferences are:
- Family walks and picnics together;
- Listening to nasheeds and spiritual audio recordings;
- Creative activities and handicrafts;
- Cooking meals for family and loved ones;
- Visiting cultural events and exhibitions (within reason);
- Engaging in sports or physical activity.
Among all sports, I prefer:
- Running;
- Walking and light trekking;
- Cycling;
- Mountain hiking;
- Fitness in female/male-only groups.
My favorite music styles are:
- Nasheeds;
- Melodies and poetry about love for the Almighty;
- Calm tunes without lyrics;
- Motivational audio lectures;
- Soft, relaxing melodies.
The best evening at home for me is:
- Cooking a tasty homemade dinner for the family;
- Spending a quiet evening reading;
- A shared walk and shopping for necessary items;
- Taking a walk in the fresh air;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
The ideal meeting (date) for me is:
- Dinner at a halal restaurant;
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- A bike ride in nature;
- Fishing or going outdoors together;
- Cooking a special dinner togethe.
In case of a conflict with a loved one, I:
- I remind myself that anger comes from Shaytan and try to calm down;
- I identify the cause of the conflict through constructive dialogue;
- I realize that a properly resolved conflict can strengthen the family.
A preferred gift from someone close to me is:
- A beautiful yet modest piece of jewelry;
- A wristwatch that serves as a reminder for prayer times;
- Some moderate excitement (not contradicting Islam).
How I feel about maintaining contact with my spouse’s parents:
- I meet them occasionally on major holidays;
- I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our relationship;
- Very important, because honoring parents is a Muslim’s duty.
In my opinion, the main problem in a family is:
- When one spouse constantly expects the other to solve all problems;
- Forgetting shared family goals and values;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs.
Ideal marital relations for me are:
- Emotional and spiritual closeness;
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas;
- Being open and caring toward each othe.
Personal space in family life means:
- Time for private prayer and self-reflection;
- Traveling alone if it’s truly necessary.
Honesty in relationships is:
- Always tell the truth, but do so gently;
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- Be yourself and respect the other person’s individuality.

Participate in Polls

How important is it for you to maintain health and an active lifestyle in accordance with the Sunnah?
Moderately important: I try to maintain balance without going to extremes
What is your attitude toward keeping pets at home, taking into account Sharia rulings?
I love animals, taking into account that certain pets like cats are permissible at home
How important is a neat, modest appearance that adheres to Islamic norms for your future spouse?
Moderately important: cleanliness and neatness are key, without excessive demands
Is your goal to get acquainted in order to enter into a nikah (Islamic marriage), or are you open to other possibilities?
I consider serious relationships with the prospect of marriage, but I'm open to getting to know someone gradually
How important are financial stability and a husband's ability to provide for the family to you?
Important: a stable income is the foundation of family tranquility
How long do you usually communicate (online or by phone) with a potential spouse before meeting in person?
Not long: a personal meeting with a mahram or a third party is more important for understanding
Do you think it is necessary to tell a potential spouse about your past relationships?
No, it's better not to go into details and focus on the present
Do you believe in the possibility of genuine friendship between a man and a woman if all Islamic boundaries are observed?
Yes, but I believe such relationships can be complicated and require special caution
How does being in love (initial attachment to a person) affect your daily activities and work?
Positively: it provides motivation and strengthens faith in the future
How important is a sense of humor in your future spouse for you?
Very important: I like it when someone can lighten the mood with a joke
What is your attitude toward a marriage contract (nikah-contract) that specifies rights and obligations?
I support it: a nikah contract protects rights and ensures clarity of responsibilities
What is your view on a marriage where the man is younger than the woman?
I accept it if both partners are mature and respect each other
What do you think is the optimal age difference between spouses in terms of family harmony?
The age difference isn't that important; mutual understanding and respect are what matter

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