Zobir 28 · Russia

Verified Was 13-09-2026

Greeting

I am looking for a kindred spirit with whom I can build a strong family, Insha Allah.

About me

Age
28
Marital Status
Not Married
Dating Goals
- Dating for marriage (Nikah)
- Dating for creating a Muslim family and having children (Nikah)
I'm looking for
Looking for woman 23 - 27
About me
For me, family means not just living together, but truly being there for each other. When we can be different yet still feel support and warmth. I am a reliable person. Not just in words, but in deeds. I love when relationships have not only seriousness but also lightness. A sense of humor is important to me—I feel that life can be tough without it. I want our home to be cozy and kind, where we understand each other with half a word and support one another at any moment. I am not one to pressure or demand. I prefer to negotiate, listen, and respect personal space. But I also want my efforts to be noticed and appreciated. I am also interested in developing and learning more about Islam. I think it’s much more interesting to do this together than alone. I am looking for not just a wife, but a close person with whom we will be both friends and a team. Someone with whom we can laugh, be silent, and walk in the same direction.
Interests
I am involved in developing chatbots and integrating services. I am interested in AI (photo/video) and vibe coding. In warm weather, I play soccer/table tennis.
Looking for in a Partner:
I am looking for a religious girl younger than me, for whom Islam is not just a tradition or habit, but a conscious way of life. For whom honesty and purity in relationships are not just words, but the foundation of everything. With such a person, you feel she is your support, and you build everything on transparency and mutual respect for our Islamic values. It is important that the concepts of "halal" and "haram" serve as her guide in life, not just empty sounds. I dream of a companion with a kind and gentle heart, who knows how to warm with care and create a true coziness at home. But at the same time, she should have inner strength and dignity. Care should manifest not only in actions but also in warmth of spirit—for me and, Insha Allah, for our children. For her, preparing a delicious dinner for the family should be a joy and a small act of service. I value wisdom and calmness. It is important that in difficult times, my wife knows how to maintain peace in the family, can yield for the sake of harmony, but at the same time does not remain silent and can respectfully and openly express what is on her mind. When trust is valued above pride, it is worth a lot. And of course, respect for family and parents is very important to me. I want my wife to understand that honoring my mom and dad is not an obligation, but a blessing and part of our faith. That we are not just husband and wife, but one big family, where there is no place for selfishness and division. My goal is to create a strong family based on the Quran and Sunnah, where trust, respect, and mutual care prevail.

My details

Height
5'11" / 180 cm
Weight
165 lb (75 kg)

Facts about me

Children
No children, but want kids
Nationality / Religion
Islam
Attitude to Religion
Religious
Observance of Kashrut
Full Observance of halal requirements
Frequency of Prayers
I perform 5 prayers daily
Style of Observance
I grow a beard following the Sunnah, but I may trim it
Language Proficiency
Russian

Possibility of Relocation
I do not rule out moving to another country
Education
Master
Occupation
Working
Occupation Field
Information Technology
Income Level
I have an average income
Housing
I rent an apartment alone
Mobility
I travel by public transport
Attitude to Smoking
I do not smoke at all

Psychological profile

The most important qualities in a future spouse for me are:
- Sincerity and openness;
- Kindness and caring;
- Ability to make decisions;
- Ability to listen and understand another person.
The most important thing in family life is:
- Trust and sincerity;
- Shared perspectives on important values;
- Regular emotional and spiritual closeness.
I absolutely cannot tolerate the following in people:
- Irresponsibility;
- Inconsistency in words and actions;
- Hypocrisy;
- Selfishness;
- Haughtiness.
I would choose the following countries to live in:
- Saudi Arabia;
- Turkey;
- Malaysia;
- Russia.
My leisure time preferences are:
- Family walks and picnics together;
- Reading Islamic and educational literature;
- Listening to nasheeds and spiritual audio recordings;
- Engaging in sports or physical activity;
- Developing one’s own business in line with Sharia norms.
Among all sports, I prefer:
- Soccer;
- Badminton;
- Cycling;
- Table tennis.
The best evening at home for me is:
- Cooking a tasty homemade dinner for the family;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
The ideal meeting (date) for me is:
- Dinner at a halal restaurant;
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- Discussing plans for marriage and the future.
In case of a conflict with a loved one, I:
- I identify the cause of the conflict through constructive dialogue;
- I try to understand my spouse’s point of view;
- I look for compromise and mutual forgiveness.
A preferred gift from someone close to me is:
- A day spent together in a family park;
- A handmade gift created with care;
- Simply attention and presence (without a material gift).
How I feel about maintaining contact with my spouse’s parents:
- Absolutely important; we are one big family.
In my opinion, the main problem in a family is:
- Forgetting shared family goals and values;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs;
- Irresponsible spending of joint funds.
Ideal marital relations for me are:
- When spouses are reliable helpers and friends to each other;
- Emotional and spiritual closeness;
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas.
Personal space in family life means:
- Time for private prayer and self-reflection.
Honesty in relationships is:
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- First figure out your own emotions, then express them.

Participate in Polls

How important is it for you to maintain health and an active lifestyle in accordance with the Sunnah?
Important, but it's not always possible to strictly follow the regimen
How important is a neat, modest appearance that adheres to Islamic norms for your future spouse?
Extremely important: modest, neat clothing and good grooming in line with Islamic norms
Is your goal to get acquainted in order to enter into a nikah (Islamic marriage), or are you open to other possibilities?
I consider serious relationships with the prospect of marriage, but I'm open to getting to know someone gradually
How important is harmony in the intimate aspect of marriage, considering Islamic norms of modesty and permissibility?
Very important: intimacy should be harmonious and in line with Islamic norms
Do you think it is necessary to tell a potential spouse about your past relationships?
It depends on the level of trust and how beneficial this information is
Do you believe in the possibility of genuine friendship between a man and a woman if all Islamic boundaries are observed?
No, attraction may develop over time, so it's better to avoid close friendship
How does being in love (initial attachment to a person) affect your daily activities and work?
Positively: it provides motivation and strengthens faith in the future
How important is a sense of humor in your future spouse for you?
An important quality, but not the only one in marriage
What is your view on a marriage where the man is younger than the woman?
Skeptical: I believe the man should be older or at least the same age
Are you willing to give a potential spouse a second chance after an unsuccessful first meeting?
Yes, I'm willing to get to know the person better on a second meeting
What do you think is the optimal age difference between spouses in terms of family harmony?
A small difference (1–5 years): convenient for a common life rhythm
What is your view on the possibility of polygamy (a man having more than one wife) if all the conditions of Sharia are met?
I allow it under certain conditions: wives’ consent, financial and emotional responsibility

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