Greeting
Peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah and His blessings!
Maryam 48 · Russia
VerifiedAbout me
Age
48
Marital Status
Widowed
Dating Goals
- Dating for marriage (Nikah)
I'm looking for
Looking for man 43 - 55
About me
God-fearing, kind, responsive, understanding, gentle, loyal.
Looking for in a Partner:
Mutual understanding and respect, responsible, serious about life, God-fearing, loving towards children.
My details
Height
5'5" / 164 cm
Weight
165 lb (75 kg)
Facts about me
Children
Have kids and they live with me
Nationality / Religion
Islam
Attitude to Religion
Religious
Observance of Kashrut
Partial compliance with halal requirements
Frequency of Prayers
I perform 5 prayers daily
Family Madhhab
Style of Observance
I wear a hijab following the Sunnah, allowing flexibility in style
Language Proficiency
Russian
Possibility of Relocation
I don't rule out moving to another city
Education
Uneducated Higher
Occupation
Other occupation
Occupation Field
Service Industry
Income Level
I have an average income
Housing
I live in my own apartment/house
Mobility
I travel by public transport
Attitude to Smoking
I do not smoke at all
Psychological profile
The most important qualities in a future spouse for me are:
- Reliability and loyalty to Islamic values;
- Kindness and caring;
- Respect for family and parents;
- Ability to listen and understand another person;
- Romantic nature within permissible limits.
- Kindness and caring;
- Respect for family and parents;
- Ability to listen and understand another person;
- Romantic nature within permissible limits.
The most important thing in family life is:
- Mutual respect and love for the sake of the Almighty;
- Trust and sincerity;
- Noble treatment of each othe.
- Trust and sincerity;
- Noble treatment of each othe.
I absolutely cannot tolerate the following in people:
- Greed;
- Excessive quick temper;
- Hypocrisy;
- Rudeness in communication;
- Insincerity and deceit.
- Excessive quick temper;
- Hypocrisy;
- Rudeness in communication;
- Insincerity and deceit.
I would choose the following countries to live in:
- Russia.
I would not choose the following countries to live in:
- Russia.
My leisure time preferences are:
- Family walks and picnics together;
- Solitude for prayer and reading the Quran;
- Reading Islamic and educational literature;
- Listening to nasheeds and spiritual audio recordings;
- Taking part in charitable or volunteer projects;
- Cooking meals for family and loved ones.
- Solitude for prayer and reading the Quran;
- Reading Islamic and educational literature;
- Listening to nasheeds and spiritual audio recordings;
- Taking part in charitable or volunteer projects;
- Cooking meals for family and loved ones.
My favorite music styles are:
- Nasheeds;
- Instrumental music without prohibited elements;
- Instrumental music without prohibited elements;
The best evening at home for me is:
- Cooking a tasty homemade dinner for the family;
- Taking a walk in the fresh air;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
- Taking a walk in the fresh air;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
The ideal meeting (date) for me is:
- A warm evening with the family;
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- Cooking a special dinner together;
- Discussing plans for marriage and the future.
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- Cooking a special dinner together;
- Discussing plans for marriage and the future.
In case of a conflict with a loved one, I:
- I identify the cause of the conflict through constructive dialogue;
- I realize that a properly resolved conflict can strengthen the family;
- I try to avoid arguments, remembering the importance of peace at home.
- I realize that a properly resolved conflict can strengthen the family;
- I try to avoid arguments, remembering the importance of peace at home.
A preferred gift from someone close to me is:
- A surprise in the form of a homemade breakfast;
- Simply attention and presence (without a material gift).
- Simply attention and presence (without a material gift).
How I feel about maintaining contact with my spouse’s parents:
- Very important, because honoring parents is a Muslim’s duty;
- Absolutely important; we are one big family;
- I happily keep in regular contact and offer help;
- Absolutely important; we are one big family;
- I happily keep in regular contact and offer help;
In my opinion, the main problem in a family is:
- Forgetting shared family goals and values;
- Excessive sensitivity and stubbornness;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs;
- Excessive sensitivity and stubbornness;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs;
Ideal marital relations for me are:
- When spouses are reliable helpers and friends to each other;
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas;
- Submitting to the will of the Almighty and avoiding the forbidden.
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas;
- Submitting to the will of the Almighty and avoiding the forbidden.
Personal space in family life means:
- Opportunity to do your favorite activities without harming family life;
- Traveling alone if it’s truly necessary.
- Traveling alone if it’s truly necessary.
Honesty in relationships is:
- Always tell the truth, but do so gently;
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- First figure out your own emotions, then express them.
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- First figure out your own emotions, then express them.
Participate in Polls
How important is it for you to maintain health and an active lifestyle in accordance with the Sunnah?
Moderately important: I try to maintain balance without going to extremes
How often do you prefer to spend time with friends and loved ones while observing Islamic guidelines for interaction?
From time to time: I respect personal space, but appreciate friendly get-togethers
What is your attitude toward keeping pets at home, taking into account Sharia rulings?
I like animals, but I'm not planning to get one
How important is a neat, modest appearance that adheres to Islamic norms for your future spouse?
Important: I like it when my partner pays attention to appearance without going beyond what's permissible
Is your goal to get acquainted in order to enter into a nikah (Islamic marriage), or are you open to other possibilities?
I consider serious relationships with the prospect of marriage, but I'm open to getting to know someone gradually
What is your view on the possibility of polygamy (a man having more than one wife) if all the conditions of Sharia are met?
I allow it under certain conditions: wives’ consent, financial and emotional responsibility
Do you have preferences regarding your partner's height?
Height does not matter
How important is it for you and your partner to share common interests and hobbies permissible from an Islamic perspective?
Moderately important: the key is mutual respect
How important are financial stability and a husband's ability to provide for the family to you?
Moderately important: drive and responsibility matter more than the current income level
How important is harmony in the intimate aspect of marriage, considering Islamic norms of modesty and permissibility?
Important: it's part of married life that shouldn't be ignored
How long do you usually communicate (online or by phone) with a potential spouse before meeting in person?
For a long time: I prefer to thoroughly get to know the person, asking about faith and goals
Which method of getting acquainted for the purpose of a halal marriage do you consider most appropriate?
Through Muslim dating websites and apps
Do you think it is necessary to tell a potential spouse about your past relationships?
Yes, but only if it directly affects the shared future
How comfortable are you with humor (including ironic or sarcastic) if it does not go beyond what is permissible?
I accept it if the jokes remain ethical and don't offend others
Do you believe in the possibility of genuine friendship between a man and a woman if all Islamic boundaries are observed?
Yes, but I believe such relationships can be complicated and require special caution
Do you think it is acceptable to maintain contact with an ex-spouse (when there are no children in common) after divorce?
Yes, if necessary and observing proper decorum (especially if there are children)
How does being in love (initial attachment to a person) affect your daily activities and work?
Neutral: I try to maintain a balance between personal life and responsibilities
How important is a sense of humor in your future spouse for you?
Moderately important: there are more serious aspects of relationships
What is your attitude toward a marriage contract (nikah-contract) that specifies rights and obligations?
I'm inclined to support it, but much depends on the specific conditions and agreements
How important is the level of religiosity (observance of prayer, fasting, hijab, etc.) of your future spouse for you?
Moderately important: I'm ready for shared spiritual growth
Have you had experience meeting potential spouses through Muslim websites or apps?
Yes, but my impressions are mixed/negative
Are you willing to give a potential spouse a second chance after an unsuccessful first meeting?
It depends on the reasons why the first date didn't work out
What is your view on a marriage where the man is younger than the woman?
I accept it if both partners are mature and respect each other
What do you think is the optimal age difference between spouses in terms of family harmony?
Moderate (6–10 years): a combination of experience and energy can be beneficial
